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writes:ok i am in total fix i need advise asap!thanks so here it goesi am 20 years old and my bouyfriend is 21 he is a hotel management student,he is done with studies and now interning in a hotel for experiencebut here is the problem my dad owns a few hotels in the city and he is usually out of town but when he does come down we usually spend time together..so my dad calls me for dinner to the hotel and when i go there i see that my bf is serving food i was utterly shocked because i dint know it was my hotel that employed him.what was worse is he spilt a little wine on the table as he was soo stunned looking at me there with his boss who happens to be my dad,and when he split it my dad who is short tempered shouted at him really badi was soo hurt but could do nothing..i am just wondering i couldnt say a word then how am i going to introduce him to my dad??my dad will never understand he wants me to get married to a person of high status..i feel so bad..what do i do.how long cani hide this from my parents Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): Well you marry who you want not who your dad wants sweetface and if he cant accept the two of you then well what can i say x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): OK - first things first. Its time to tell your boyfriend who your Dad is. Explain why you were there and apologise for the 'scene'. You can't keep it hidden and it will help your boyfriend understand things - not so bad - and he might even see it as a positive and have respect for your situation.
As for your Dad expecting you to 'do better' you have plenty of time to settle down and in the meantime I think you are free to date who you like.
Its time for you to try and start being an independent young woman with a mind of your own and part of this is managing the sometimes difficult expectations of parents v partners.
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