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anonymous
writes:I broke up with my gf of 2 years yesterday. We both parted saying that we love each other a lot but she is not sure if she wants to commit to me cause she is 10 years younger. She is afraid we might not want the same things even though we have talked about this in the past and we are both very like minded and want preety much the same except she is afraid she will have to compromise in career. Plus she says she is a country girl at heart and I am not but again that is not true and I have told here that. We both cried for hours before she left. I dont want to contact her but i still wish she sees that we are too good togather and it would be a pity if this went nowhere. I wish we are back but I am not sure this will happen. How long can I wait before I can ask her how shes doing cause I dont want her to feel I am ignoring her after the breakup. I have never been this sad ever.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 May 2013):
 As long as humanly possible.
there is NO need for ex partners to be friends or in touch unless you have children together.
make a clean break and move on if you can.
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (6 May 2013):
 Go no contact and give her the space to figure things out. I have a strong feeling, she's going to come back to you, realizing that it's not always greener on the other side. Give her that space to find out. Finding that kind of compatibility and connection with someone else is so rare. She will soon find that out. I'm not sure if someone else is giving her this dumb advice about the age difference. Hopefully she will soon realize that she needs to follow her own heart and not someone else's idea of what is best for her.
Just be reassured that you gave her the best love and support anyone else will ever give to her, and when you least expect it, you'll be hearing from her. In the meantime, give yourself time to grieve, take a vacation, heal yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2013): Thanks guys for ur opinion. I asked that question. I did have a short chat cause she wanted to know if i was ok since she says she is worried about me. I dont want to contact her further but i fear she might take it as that I have moved on in case she think this was a mistkae to part.
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