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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): You need to focus on yourself and take care of yourself. If he wants to come back he will if he doesn't it wasn't meant to be and you will have spent your time becoming whole again and not focused on him. And if he does come back your relationship will be stronger.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): It all depends if there is love between you both and if they have qualities about them worth fighting for
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 If someone dumped me and i loved him so much, i would probably ask him if he is doing the right thing by dumping me ?
if he says yes or his actions say yes, i would smile but walk away gracefully.
Good luck!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 August 2009):
Well if they were stupid enough to split up with me then I wouldn't want to be with them so not at all.
Unless he split up with me for a valid reason and I was at fault with something I could change. (drug alcohol addiction, stupid health risking activities like dieting / bear fighting)
Then it might be worth trying to be a better person so they would come back.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): Lol, Phil.
I think what he means is, he dumped you, so wouldn't it be pointless to fight for him, as he obviously doens't want to be with you? ANd is there a new women here, because that only makes it harder and more pointless.
This is rather vague. If he dumped me but he was a jerk and we weren't really good together anyway, I would fly away and never look back. Thank the sucker and move on.
Is he worth a fight? If he dumped me for someone else, not at all. If he dumped me because he thought i changed, prehaps i would take a look at myself and fight. Did you do something wrong and you need to earn him back? That may be worth a fight if you convince him thouroughly that you are sorry and will not repeat offense .. but to be honest, i've never been dumped..
~Sy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): Wouldn't it be a rather pointless exercise? Who would you fight anyway?
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