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writes:Hi, there is this guy that I really like and I think the feeling is mutual but he sometimes gives off mixed signal which makes me very confused consequently, i tend to stop flirting or seem not interested in him because i dont wanna look stupid. I not sure if he is playing a game but he tells me he likes me and be all close to me when he is drunk eg wanting to kiss me. Last weekend we ended up snogging at this party. It got awkward between us after that incident but we still great mates.My question is how hard is it for a him to ask me out if he really does like me? I am tired of waiting and i would hate it if ended up with another girl.Should I just forget about him or keep waiting untill he says something?
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reader, Lily Moll  +, writes (4 February 2008):
If you've already gone through the awkwardness of drunken snogging, how much more awkward would it be to let him know how you feel? You're still friends after that, so there's no reason you can't be friends after telling each other how you feel. If you have to, wait until you're drinking again. Then, if things don't go right, you can always chalk it up to the alcohol talking.You ask if he really likes you, how hard is it for him to ask you out, but you really like him, and yet you're having a hard time asking him out. Maybe he's having a hard time for the same reasons as you. Maybe he's afraid to risk your friendship by scaring you off. This happened between a male friend and me once, and we ended up telling each other how we felt, and discovered that we'd felt all the same things all along! We would flirt with each other and think that the other one liked us, then one of us would stop, and the other one would feel weird and wonder, "Does she/he really like me?" It just went back and forth for months until I finally told him how I felt. Sometimes I think it's harder for guys. Girls can be pretty intimidating;)
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reader, mousey17 +, writes (4 February 2008):
 i think the best way is to just tell him how you feel
and if that doesnt work then maybe you should just move on obviously he isnt worhth the wait otherwsie he would of said something
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reader, Sweet111 +, writes (3 February 2008):
Why do you feel you should wait for him?? If you ended up snoggin you would have thought the feeling is mutual, why not ask him out?
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