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writes:How early is too early in a relationship for the following?1. Love bites2. Ear kisses3. Being topless together4. Boob/nipple kisses5. Being in underwear together6. Being in bed in underwear together7. Having a shower together8. Being in bed naked together9. Upper body foreplay10. Lower body foreplay11. Sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2013): Really, six months? What guy would wait for a whole six months at that age? Or may be he would be having some one else for sex.
Stages you described are usually very soon become one big stage that is passed very fast after kissing. Even if you get an answer here which I think impossible how are you going to actually bring it to life with your boyfriend? On such and such day we will do boob kissing, then a month later, we lay down in bed topless, then a month later no bottom. Try not to have sex laying in a bed with an 18 years old guy naked.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2013): I really disagree with some of the people on here who said, "all of that is just foreplay, they're all the same thing, it all leads to sex, etc." Those are NOT all the same thing! I am 22 and have only done these things with one person, my current BF of one year. I was topless with him for a long time before I felt ready to move onto other things. Then we only tried touching for a while, before we actually had sex. My two points of advice:1. Go slowly, more slowly than you think you want to (not sure how often you're seeing each other, but wait AT LEAST a month before sex). You can't go back in time if you regret doing something, but you can always try it in the future.2. Talk to him about what you're feeling, what you're thinking, what his thoughts are, etc.Good luck, have fun, be safe :)
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (23 March 2013):
 Most of us guys would expect to get through that list (to the prize at the bottom, No 11).... by the THIRD date.....
Good luck....
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reader, LivingWithBadDecisions +, writes (23 March 2013):
 i hate love bites because they look weird.i think ear kissing can be alright after a few months in.i think the rest should only be done when you're ready to do then, because it all goes hand in hand most of the time.Cooper
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2013): We are both 18. These are not game questions - I was just wondering when it would be seen as not-easy for me to do these things.
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reader, Pr3tty_in_pink86 +, writes (23 March 2013):
I'd say you should know the person for at least 3 months for anything under clothes.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 March 2013):
 Depends on the person and their goals for the relationship.
there is no timetable where it's written...
if you were 13 it's too soon for all those things even after 6 months of dating
If you were a 36 yr old divorced woman out for fun and games then all of the above is fair game on the first date if you so wish.
It's a funny list... are these game questions?
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