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How do you make your boyfriend WANT you?

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Question - (14 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2009)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

How do you make your boyfriend WANT you?

This is a strange situation - I've been seeing a man who I love but I'm not sure he really wants me! He only used to call or meet up when he wanted something so I told him we may as well forget it. Anyway, since then he has been seeing me a lot more but even now it is a chore trying to get him to do anything in the bedroom!!

If my man is really not interested why is he making more of an effort to see me? Plus - if he does want me - why the lack of enthusiasm in the bedroom??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

maybe he is inexperienced? or does not know what to do to please you if that is the case just explain things you would like to do and ask him what excites him too.

lingerie? corsets, lace whatever takes your fancy. go to somewhere like ann summers and get some toys. buy a karma sutra?

make an effort to though sex is a two way action. so get dolled up and make a delierate effort to excite him.

you could always ask him why the lack of interest?tell him you feel a lacking and want to know if it's todo with him or you.

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