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writes: Hi, I have a great boyfreind, I am 13 he is 15. Its realy complicated so I wont expain. We live in different states but he lives in my hometown where I used to live and go to every summer and school break. I know that he has kissed other girls but he is my first boyfreind and I dont know how to kiss for real. I want to and I know he will be dissapointed if I dont. How do I kiss him? I have no idea! Please Help! Sincerly, Young in love and confused Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): heyyy,
I've decided to answer because I remember how nervous I was on my first kiss... I was 14, so your ahead of me! I wasnt dating the boy at the time, so we were at the movies. he was 15, and had plenty of experience... :) he made it very easy and fun for me, like kissing up my neck, along my arm, telling me how great i looked... and the acual kiss was OK. but the moral of the story is to just be comfortable with the guy and yourself, and let it happpen. The best way to do it is to be passive, and move your lips with his, and follow HIS lead. That ensures that he will like it! As your kiss him more and more you can try to take the lead and try new things. and dont worry, kissing gets better the more you do it.:) hope i helped...
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (8 April 2006):
 kissing is a natural thing if you over think it then you likely to mess up. dont plan the kiss just let it happen, just go with the moment. just let your boyfriend guide you thro the kiss (you can tell him its your first time...if you want he shouldnt think bad of you as your 13) just enjoy you time with it, dont stress over it
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2006): hey,
me and my friend have decided to give u some advice. we have both kissed girls brfore and we no how scary the first time can be. when he come, just try and relax, if he leans if for a kiss, just kiss him normally, keep on doing it and the rest will come natuarally.
hoped we help and gd luck
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (7 April 2006):
 To be honest hun, theonly way you'll ever find out is by doing the deed itself!! Tell the guy it is the first time you've ever kissed someone and you are nervous, that way if he has kissed before he will be able to 'guide' you if you like.
Men have this thing about being all macho and allmighty and I think they just love feeling protective and manly towards their girls, so if you just say him, "you want him to take it easy as its your first kiss" and just drop in there "I'd like you to be gentle with me and look after me!" then he could be like candy in your hand!
Hope it all goes well, sweetie, just remember you kiss many many frogs before you meet a prince!!
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