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writes:How can you tell if you aren't just some girl to your boyfriend? I am just asking in general, do not give me the we need more information I am just wondering what a guy would do for a girl that meant something to him and what he would do for a girl that is just a side stop for now. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): P.S. Make sure the guy is the guy who loves you FIRST, and not the wamp bam guy, BEFORE you have sex with him. Guys who wamp bam once, never respect, and never will, the women that they use. Careful. If in doubt, hold off. Women foolishly believe that having sex with a guy who doesn't love them will make the guy have feelings for them -- that never works.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): I guess if you have to ask, you're a side stop girl. Guys who love their girls, want to be with them, kiss them, hold them, hug them, love them, all the time, even after the sex. After a guy has sex, that's when you really know: if he still wants to be with you, touching you, doing it again and again, and it's not just the sex, but the connection, then you know it's real. Alternatively, if he rolls off you when he's done, and puts on his sweats, and heads for the door with a thanks, smile, and good-bye wave (catch ya later), then you know you're a side stop. Guys express their love (and lust, that's ok) sexually; if it's just a wamp bam -- you know it. If it's making love, bringing you to orgasm, after orgasm, orally, and otherwise, it's real love. Also, don't underestimate the gifts, the bling -- if a guy loves you, he'll buy you things. He also may be a bit jealous (in a cute way). Also, as Cher says, it's in his kiss.... :)
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