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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I recently just started talking to a guy at work, at first it was flirting via email and then he had offered me a position within the company, I accepted and now he is my boss. Nobody at work has a clue and everything is kept very confidential between us. We tell each other how much we miss each other and he comes over my place a couple nights a week. We have done pretty much everything but sleep together. I'm falling for him more and more and I'm confused. He really isn't my type but after getting to know him he is so real and he amazes me more and more each day. I am a single mother and recently he met my daughter. He adores her and she does the same. I'm confused. I want it to go farther but he we really don't talk about 'us'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): The only true advice I can give you is that work relationships don't workout. You make more enemies with co-workers, he's your boss and if things don't workout then you take the risk of loosing your job and if you're breaking company policy that's just more trouble. You may honestly be falling in love with him. But, working with him is not a good idea. If you think this is "the one", then I would suggest finding a different job. Right now it sounds like lust more than love. Otherwise you would not be putting yourself in this situation, nor would you be reaching out to the "web" for answers Love is a great thing but on the other hand it comes with a lot of pain and sacrifices. Hope this help! Remember this is only my opinion. You know what's actually going on and you know what really is on your heart. KL
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