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female
age
30-35,
*010babi3s
writes:I am a virgin and I had to wear tampons for swimming. I also have been fingered a couple of times. I don't know if my cherry popped or not. How do I know?
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reader, 2010babi3s +, writes (31 January 2009):
2010babi3s is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you everybody really appreciate the advice thanx y'all helped a lot
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 January 2009):
The whole idea of virginity is kind of changing now.
The hymen used to be the big thing, but that was back when girls sat around embroidering dresses all day. Now we use tampons and dance and run and ride bikes and everything else, the hymen has usually been badly damaged or destroyed by the time you hit your teens.
Now I take the definition of virginity as "not having had sex".
If you haven't had a penis or large penis shaped object in you then you are a virgin.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Firefighter's Wife 09 +, writes (30 January 2009):
Oh hun! I used to wonder the same thing! After wearing tampons you probably don't have the so called cherry anymore. I don't know any people that had problems with it. So if you do have sex don't worry about getting blood on the sheets. Unless of course you put something too big in there and suffer little tears from it! Even then you shouldn't have much blood at all! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): The "cherry", also known as the hymen, is a small membrane covering of the vagina. It probably will never have covered the entire thing. Look down. Do you see a little flap of skin when you open up? If not, your "cherry" has probably been popped from playing sports, riding a bike, fingering, using tampons, or any number of things. Heck, it may have never been there to begin with.
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