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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together about two months. He told me that he's never felt this way about anybody before that it actually scares him how much he likes me. He calls me almost everyday, tells me I'm beautiful and that he cant believe I'm his. He treats me really well, much better than anyone I've been with in the past. Sometimes he will even put his hands on my cheeks and just look at me with this look on his face like he's about to cry (it kinda makes me uncomfortable) Does he love me? He's never said it but I have a feeling he likes me more than I like him Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (26 December 2010):
 how do you feel about him? why are you with him? do you feel you may develop stronger feeling or love for him? does being not very well treated by past boyfriends have any bearing on how you feel about his boyfriend (i mean - do u stay with him becuase he is better than the others, are you afraid to get too involved and love him becuase you are afraid he might hurt you or let you down? this relationship is very very new. he may feel like he loves you or not so i am glad that he has not started using the L word yet! just take things slowly if you still want to be with him. you both dont have to rush into love or committment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2010): it takes a veryyyyy long time to actually fall in love. He may care about you and love you someday, but give it time. two month is far too early to fall in love or even really know someone
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (25 December 2010):
 He probably has some deep feelings for you.
Are you upset that he is more into you than you are into him?
What you wrote says he's deeply bonded to you, and wants to please you in anyway possible. That's love.
Are you holding back because you don't see yourself with him for much longer? Are you afraid he's not what you're looking for?
Whatever it is, maybe you need to talk to him about how you feel about him too, so at least he doesn't end up hurting really badly if this doesn't work out.
The one thing I try and tell people is if someone's more into you than you're into them, you don't want to keep leading that person on. Then its really bad and those are the kinds of breakups that get ugly.
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