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How do you deal with seeing your ex in another's company?

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Question - (2 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I want my ex back so much its ruining my life. He's not interested but I still like him so much. Ive been asked out by alot of other boys in the past few weeks but I only want him. It hurts so much and whats worse is that it was my fault that we finished in the first place. He's so gorgeous and every girl fancies him I wont be able to handle seein him wiv anyone else.

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (3 December 2007):

Hey Rachel don't be quick to diss the brother man.The lady has already accepted fault.Read her question again.She realised that it was her fault.So in this case,it's her loss.No wonder she's still feeling bad.

Well sweety it's good you've realised that you made a mistake leaving him.He's not yet dead,that means you still have a chance.Go and try get what you think belongs to you.There's no use crying about it and not doing anything.Tell him how much you need him back and see what happens next.Maybe that's what he's waiting for since you are the one who ended things.If the guy's still not interested,MOVE ON.There are more cuter guys out there or are youngoing out with him just to make a name that you've got someone good looking? Forget the looks and the girls and try to live your own life.With time you'll feel much better.

Good luck.

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A female reader, bqagirl2692 United States +, writes (3 December 2007):

bqagirl2692 agony auntWell honey you must accept the fact that you let go of something good that couldve went forward for the both of you. Accept your mistake because whats done is done and if he isnt interested anymore than you must move on yourself. You regret the decision you made but regretting things dont make a difference. Take it like this. Everything happens for a reason. Maybe he wasnt made for you as much as of a good guy he must be. If it was meant to be, then he wouldnt have moved on so quickly. It may take some time but eventually you will give your heart a second chance to let someone else in. Let things fall in their place. Good luck!

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A female reader, x_Rachel_x United Kingdom +, writes (2 December 2007):

Breaking up with boyfriends or girlfriends is always a tough time for anyone especially when you really care for that person; and sometimes the situatin can made even harder by seeing your ex with someone new. Recently I had gone through a similar situation with an ex of mine, and at first it was so hard seeing him with someone new. But, i promise it does get easier I know it may not seem like it now but ti does get better. You have to remember one important thing- it's his lose NOT yours, anyone who hurts you and makes you cry does not deserve to take a place in your life. Insted of feeling sorry for yourself feel sorry for the poor who ended up with him!

There are so many other guys out there who are crying out for an amazing girl like you, give them an chance, in a few months you'll look back laughing at your ex as he's the one who missed out on something great.

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