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writes:Hey everyone,Myself and my girlfriend (both 20) are interested in having a threesome with a female.We're in a stable, long term relationship and both very sexually adventurous!Neither one of us specifically proposed the idea, however we've admitted that we would love to experience one when discussing our fantasy's.We've now decided that we want to arrange one but have no idea about how to approach a third person, so I'm writing this post with hope of receiving some guidance on how to approach the idea and for other couples experiences on the topic?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replys guys, some mixed opinions so far!
Our relationship is very strong and we are both keen on the idea so its hard to imagine that things would change if we had a threesome, however I appreciate that a lot of people seem to have had pretty bad outcomes. I think we just need to make sure we find the right gal so till then we won't be rushing into anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): Find a girl.....find out if she's into threesomes by inviting her to drinks and having a few conversations about past experiences or curiousity. If she is then plan a night of fun and spend some time getting comfortable around each other. Usually the girls need to be comfortable together. This is going to be about them.....you just take what is givin out of it. Have rules and the do's and donts down. Don't neglect your girl at any given time. Make her feel like a third wheel and its ALL over. We decided to go with my wifes bestfriend. Not usually recommended because you can wreck a friendship if it goes bad. But it was easy for us cause we were already close with her and knew what she was into. She was single....we both thought she was good looking....and she was into both of us. And most importantly my wife trusted her enough to know she would never try to have a relationship with me. We've only done it once and it was pretty successful. We plan on doing it again and very excited about doing it. Each relationship is different.......find what works for you by going over the rules between the two of you. There is a lot of trust and comfort between the three of us so we are pretty open to anything. Works out great for me. ;) good luck and be safe
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): When my husband and I had a threesome I choice the female and I'm the one that told her. I just told that we were interested in having a threesome with her. She agreed we had it and it was great for that moment, but be prepare for changes because things might change afterward.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): You can search the net for girls nearby. But keep in mind that a threesome might change your life, and I don't mean that in a good way. You have a strong and healthy relationship, don't ruin that. Think carefully.
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