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writes:when a guy says he loves you but your not sure if you feel the same what do you say??? is there anything you can say that wont hurt too much??? HELP!
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reader, beauty585  +, writes (12 October 2007):
 if u dont feel the same way as him then jus say thanx or give him a nice smile..its ok 2 not feel the same way...and when he says he loves u try asking him why does he love u and what he loves about you and see what he says..good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): [laughs] You say "Thank you", and then fly off somewhere. Ah Friends, I loved that show.
Seriously though, you don't really need to do or say anything. If you want to react to it somehow, give him a hug. If he 'demands' a reciprocated answer, well, changing the subject always helps, but note that it would be an obvious 'rejection' which may or may not cause further strife from him.
RCN said it quite right I think.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (12 October 2007):
Just say I like you very much.
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reader, rcn +, writes (12 October 2007):
 It's OK to not feel the same way. People grow at different speeds. You just let him know, you don't feel as strong as he does at this time, but when you do he'll know it.
The reason you say "when" is telling him there is a possibility at some time, and that you're not saying your feelings are permanent.
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