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writes: I'm just wondering how guys handle breakups? does it even bother them? do they cry? is he still thinking about me because it hasnt been long since we split? And how is he gona react to me telling him i hate him because he hasnt spoken to me since i said that. is he hurting? or just not bothered at all? x Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010): Hes probably not bothered at all or he would have responeded to your bait about hating him. It might be best to try and move on now as he seems to be doing so.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 February 2010):
It really depends who dumped who. If he dumped you, then chances are he is already over you and not bothered. If you dumped him, and he really loved you, he will have spent plenty of time crying. So it depends on who dumped who.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (14 February 2010):
Well... we need more information. Did he break up with you or you with him? How long had you been together? Were you in love or just casually dating?
Any human being who feels love for another and then loses that person, male or female, will feel hurt. Just read these boards, men are just as capable of pining away for a ex GF as woman are for a BF. But if he didn't have feelings for you he may just be moving on with his life.
You say you hate him because he hasn't spoken to you since your breakup? I don't get that really... that's what breaking up is, you stop speaking to the other person. Is he not returning your calls or ignoring you when you see him? Or were you just expecting him to call? We need a bit more info.
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