A
female
 ,
anonymous
writes:this question is going to sound really stupid but i really really need some help.iv been going through a really rough time lately. mostly its down to having a baby and being on maternity leave for 6 months. not being at work has affected me much worse than i thought it would.its made me take a long hard look at my relationship. ive put my partner through the mill but he has stuck by me which makes me think that he must really love me.the problem is ive been demanding so many answers from him but its come round full circle and ive realised that alot of the problem lies with me. all the issues that have caused me distress he has promised to put right and i think he means itthe problem is that i go to tell him how i feel about him so that he will do the same back and i just dont know what to say. its not that i cant put it into words its more a case of i really dont know how i feel.iv kept myself so busy and focused on other areas of my life that iv just never addressed this before and it shocks me.How do I work out how I really feel about him so I can put it into words and tell him?
View related questions:
at work Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 I understand that things change very much in a relationship when a child is born. For example, many men find that they aren't as important to their partner as they used to be, because the child becomes the most important person for the woman. Understandably so, I must say. Maybe that's why you've been thinking so much about the relationship? Maybe now you don't like the feeling that you need to depend on him, to an extent? I think you should think harder and be patient. Your partner loves you, and that's an advantage. There is no way to put your thoughts into words than thinking about yourself and then speaking up.
|
