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writes: my crush lives down the street from me. when im with him im always smiling and i tend to always have a fun time. i feel that he likes me because i gave him a small note a month ago and found it still on his desk in his room. certain things make me feel like he has feelings for me. im not sure if he knows that i like him as well. what can i do to let him know i like him with out actually telling him. me and my neighbor have been freinds for 4 years now and we get along very well. i do want a relationship with him but i feel like it may take some time to turn a friendship into a relationship. what is your advice? please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno we arnt having sex lol but yes there is an attraction between the both of us.. thanks for the advice though
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (22 January 2007):
 His needs might be already met because you may give him what he needs.
The note he keeps in his room, could be a souvenir,nothing else.
For you to be in his room, you are giving him sex without him having to commit?
It could be a non-commital relationship out of convenience for him,be careful that you may want different things.
If you want more, talk to him and find out how he feels about a more solid relationship.
After four years, he should now know if he wants to be more serious with you. If he is not ready now, he may never be.
Good luck x
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reader, notlamc  +, writes (22 January 2007):
 First of all - You're opinions of him and how he makes you feel, might not be reciprocated.
There needs to be an element of attraction before a friendship can turn into a relationship.
You also have the old problem of 'what happens if you guys don't work out' - How do you go back to being as you were before.
Maybe he might not be prepared to allow your friendship to end if you broke up?
If you still want to go for it, remember, us men are quite simple creatures - We don't understand women that much and we often need more than a small note to realise things.
Tell him how you feel, see if he responds and act accordingly - Just remember that his opinion of you *might* change.
Be prepared to accept whatever he responds with.
Good luck!
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