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writes: Very Confused:I've written a couple of questions on here asking for help and to recap on my problems....I got dumped a month ago by a guy who i would have done anything for. I loved him entirely although he was selfish and had little respect for women and also an alcohol problem which i could see getting worse. he wouldnt accept help from anyone and he ended up telling my friend, a stranger to him who he had only met once, more about how unhappy he was with our relationship than speaking to me. Anyway its over and i miss him so much and i wait by the phone hoping for the next phone call or text message...(he has contacted me a few time since our split, asking how i am and what i'm doing), which confuses me as well....Then theres my ex who strangely got in contact the night i broke up with my serious boyfriend and we ended up going on a date which went well. We then went on a second date (saturday) and ended up kissing passionatly and i ended up giving him oral sex...and he did stuff for me too. I havent heard from him since, even though before this happened he said he wasnt sure about starting up the relationship again as college commitments etc (this is what broke us up first time round)anyway i feel used, depressed and a bit crap to say the least. Don't really know how to pick myself back up after this. Feel like im waiting for something to happen so i can turn this all around and get on with my life - but right now its so hard when you miss someone so badly...even when its wrong for you. HELP PLS!
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):
First off. Get away from the phone. Did you enjoy the sex with your ex? If so, great, now look ahead.
Use men for your enjoyment until you find the right one. Neither of these are and you know it. There is no time limit, shuffle them and find the real King of Hearts for you.
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):
First thing first. Get away from waiting by the phone. Did you enjoy sex with your ex? If so, great - now forget about it.
You need to get away from depending on these men to help your esteem. Use them, have a great time sex-wise,
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reader, Karebear +, writes (20 December 2005):
Take a deep breath. Now exhale and realize that you need to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with anyone else. Quit waiting on men to make you happy, because that will never happen. You need to take some time out and focus on you. Unplug the phone, turn off your cell, and relax a little. You need to start the process of getting over your ex. It doesn't sound like he was that great anyway (you've probably heard that a hundred times but I guarantee it's true). And as for your old ex, stay away from him. Do you remember why you broke up in the first place? Chances are he hasn't changed much. And besides, you're not ready for a new relationship yet. You need some you time. Hang out with the girls. Go see a movie. Take a bubble bath. Do whatever it takes to realize that you are the most important person in your life. If you start working on yourself, then sooner than you think you'll meet a great guy that you can be happy with. A new guy. Don't give up. Think of this as a time to start fresh. I always start with a new haircut. It seems to make me feel better :) Hang in there. You can do it!
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