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writes:A few years ago I had a few things happen and it made me realise what a strong desire sex is for a man. They rape for it, they hurt for it. Its like they will do anything for it.I just got married to a really wonderful man but I am having troubles trusting him. If he is out later then planned I question him, he looks at porno videos on the internet which most guys do but I get really upset about it. I really just want to be relaxed and not question him but it is really hard.Does anyone have any tips on how I can learn to trust him ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the answers, they were all a great help xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): well, friend. Tell him not to watch porn videos or any such material and explain him that it hurts you. try to be as close you can when he spents time with you. discuss each and everything about the day once he home.
Once you start spending time with him make they day he slowly comeout from all the bad habits(what u call).
Since you are telling he is wonderful man. Trust Him first.
Rest will be settled soon :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008): I know how you feel, i knew when i married my husband that he had 'been busy' in the past and had cheated on his previous partner of 14 years. He sounds like a right pig doesnt he!
I worry about the same things but somtimes do we look too hard or read too much into things??
I don't know but we have to be careful not to push them away with our worries and nagging?
I think you have to be alert and only act if you actually see or hear anything??
But i guess you have to just concentrate on being positive, he must think a hell of a lot of you if he married you? I mean you wouldnt just marry anyone would you? unless you were 100% certain?
Just have fun together and be positive, dont make yourself ill over things.
This is probably a terrible answer, I'm sorry I guess i am just as in the dark as you over this one??
I shall certainly be watching the answers.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 Some men are as you described. Maybe I can reassure you that it's not all by my story. I am a 36 year old male. No does mean no. I have not been sexually active with anyone for going on 2 years 5 months. I have had opportunity too, but have ignored the advances. I do this because if I find someone to merry, going without will allow me to really appreciate the person I'm with and the sexual experience with them more.
I hope this helps.
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