A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Here's the deal, early last month my girlfriend of 4 years decides she is moving back in with her parents half-way across the country and I am left alone. We decided to try the LDR(long distance relationship) thing, but we never even talk. So she's been gone for over a month and I recently met another girl through a mutual friend. Things are going entirely too fast for me (I know it's odd to hear that coming from a guy). I have only known this girl since last Friday, but she comes to my apartment every day and we have already had sex. But it wasn't like a one night stand thing, she keeps calling and keeps wanting to hang out, but I am a little put off by it. I really, really like this girl, but she does not know about the girlfriend I'm still sorta involved with. I am afraid she's falling for me, but I don't know how to tell my current gf. What the f*** do I do? I don't want her to think I'm just on the rebound because I really do like this girl....I'm so confused....
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reader, Doc Thairish +, writes (24 March 2007):
Its time to fess up to your gf that its not working and that u dont think its working out! Dont cheat coz you would'nt like done to you!
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reader, livi +, writes (24 March 2007):
hey,
well you have got tot chose, who do you like more?
it is unfair to keep two girls and lead them both on. you need to stick with one and try and be mates with the other.
tell the girl you let down the truth, honesty is the best form of communication.
Its not going to be easy, but its the right thing to do.
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