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writes:Ok, so i like this girl(haven't heard that one before...) and i don't think anyone even knows this, because I've never cared that much about love or the like; Sadly, my friend keeps hitting on her, but not in any normal way, he is a little perverted b******(were both 14) so he does s*** that is very...well, perverted! I'm afraid I will lose my temper when he does, so how do i tell him to "f*** off" nicely, although I am a very blunt person, and i bet he would ask me "why in the hell i didn't say so earlier". Then he would try and get us together. I have no intention of getting close to anyone, or letting him do the stuff he has been doing! (FYI: He does some bad s***, and she tells him to stop. I'm almost afraid that he is going to get his a** kicked over this one, and that's not from me!) Reply to this Question
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Ok if you and this guy are really good friends the I'm sure you can talk to him.. I'm exactly the same age as you and see this shit going on all the time around school.Just pull him aside guy to guy, friend to friend and tell him that he needs to stop.. ask him to put himself in her shoes and see how he would like it... and he could get in huge trouble if he continues and the girl reports him for sexual harrassment.So just talk to him... make sure he's paying attention and if he happens to ask you why you even care just tell him you don't agree with that s**t he's doing and it's not right,(you don't have to tell him you like the girl if you don't want to, it's not his business) but if you really trust him, there's no reason not to tell him... maybe he could be more understanding if you do.Good luck and keep us posted - peace
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reader, FountainOfIndifference  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 If there's a chance he might get beaten up in a fight, you should talk to him.Nobody likes getting beaten up in a fight.Except for maybe those weirdos who do. ANYWAY. Talk with your friend and make sure he listens. It doesn't matter how you do this, tie him to a chair, beat him with a pipe, poke him with a spoon, just make sure he pays attention to you.The girl has already asked him to stop. And he hasn't. Which isn't good at all. If you are scared that this might lead to a fight, tell your friend about your fears. Ask him politely if he'll consider stopping with the remarks. Don't demand that he stop, or try forcing him (at least not yet).Of course, if he refuses, then you can start doing things like beating him a pipe. I'm sure he'll be fine. Knock some sense into him.And if you don't want to, don't include the fact that you like the girl in your conversation. You should try to focus mainly on the fact that you're worried about your friend's welfare and safety.
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