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*il-angel182
writes:how do i tell my family that me and my bf are on a break/pause now? cause we broke up about a week ago but now both decided we want to try again at somepoint but my family are very anrgy with him the now and my mum is totally against us going back out and him coming up what do i do? i really love this man but i dont think they realise that
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reader, lil-angel182 +, writes (8 December 2007):
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so u think i shouldn't tell them the now?? i was going to leave it till after christmas then start talkin to him again and then tell them that we decided that we both want to get back together but that we gonna take a break the now prob till my exams are over, that sound a good idea?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): If you are very young then i can understand your family being concerned. They love you and want the best for you, and want you to be happy and safe. Maybe they saw you very upset when you split up and remember you are their baby and always will be. I know, i have three kids and two grand kids and even now i find it hard when they have an arguement to keep my mouth shut, but i do and i let them get on with it themselves. Make their own mistakes and put them right. You maybe need to not push this on them too much and just bide your time. Once you get to 18 you can do what you want but until then dont be too pushy about going on about him to your folks. They will see that in time you love him and will come round to your way of thinking but dont expect things to happen overnight.
take care
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