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writes:I'm pregnant and my mom just kicked me out. .. How do I tell the father in a way that he wont freak out ? I'm seeing him tomorrow to tell him .. advice please ?!?!? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (9 August 2010):
 Well, it's great that he reacted so well. I do have the same question as the other poster - you haven't had sex? Has he ejaculated around or on your va-jayjay? Definitely go to the clinic to make sure, and if you are in fact pregnant, how very "immaculate conception" of you! Good luck and congratulations!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): how can you be pregnant when you didn't even have sex?? O.o
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reader, damn it +, writes (8 August 2010):
damn it is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell... I told him.. He didn't freak out as much as I thought he would.. but he doesn't really believe I'm pregnant. I told him I skipped two periods and had two positive tests but he still doesn't really believe it.. He said he;s gonna buy me another test and if that one is positive too then he is going to take me to the clinic to make sure cause we don't really know how this happened .. cause we didn't actually have sex..
On the bright side though he said he is going to be there for me and support me through everything.
He's a good man. This just reminds me why I fell in love with him in the first place.
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reader, peace love nsn +, writes (8 August 2010):
I have to agree with tasteofindia don't expect him to be the happiest person in the world and if he is don't expect him to stay like that. have you ever seen the Maury show? guys are always saying they were never happy bout having a baby. and what do you plan on doin once you have the baby? hope this helps good luck!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 August 2010):
How tricky.. it's never easy to find the words, but your situation makes it even more challenging. I would prepare him tonight. Tell him that you've got some pretty huge news, give him a chance to get prepared for such a big announcement.
I think, most importantly, you need to get yourself ready. He may freak, I'm sure you have already gone through a lot of the initial shock. Be ready if he needs the space to sort all of this out in his head. Don't expect him to be jumping for joy, or to be the most supportive instantly. He needs to wrap his head around the reality of this situation.
I hope you have extended family or friends who can help you. I hope your Mother gets over her anger and remembers that you are her daughter and need her love and parenting now more than ever. I wish you the best!
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