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writes:I love my roommate to bits and she just got dumped by her boyfriend of seven months. She is totally crushed and really wants to get back with him but I know she could do so much better if she only gave it some time. I have no idea want to say or do to make her less upset or convince her she better off. please help.
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reader, xcrazygirl08x  +, writes (14 April 2009):
Get her to enjoy single life again! Go out, have fun, chat up guys and have fun flirting. When she sees that there are more (and better) guys out there she will slowly get used to the idea of being without him. (A subtle way of showing her there is more to life out there without saying anything) I went through the same thing and it took me a long time. But without the help of my supportive friends I would never have made it. Hope this helps, hun. :)
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Don't bad mouth him(it'll just make you look bad right now), let her find out on her own that he's no good(she'll see more clearly once she's moved on). Tell her it's ok and understandable that she is upset but this too shall pass and she needs to be strong and move on with her life. tell her that if its really meant to be it will work out in the end but she needs to move on first cause no one wants to get back together with someone that just sits there and cries and isn't living her life. Tell her breakups are hard for everyone and she feels like this now because it's still fresh but it will get better. take her out, go shopping, to a movie, out for dinner....do something fun together so she's distracted and doesn't just think about HIM!Good luck hun:)
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