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anonymous
writes:.... I would like some advise on how to tell my boyfriend what I like, I do like fingering but sometimes he moves to fast I want to try and show him that if he goes slower for me is can be a lots better, and I know for him to it can be. I... like am kind of scared of saying well were doing it to say .. Hey can you just rub slowly down there for a bit .... it feels alot better then you aimlessly trusting your fingers into me. ( So i wouldn't say it like that) But how would I like well were not doing anything .... or like how to show him ..... with out me doing it to myself .....
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks but i don't really know what to say ..... so like he gets it right ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): If you don't feel comfortable telling him just simply place your hand on top of his and control his speed. As a guy I would rather just be told though. Everyone likes different things. He is young so I'm sure any tips will be helpful. For example: girl "a" might like it fast. Girl " b" might like it slow. Girl " c " might not like it at all. Don't just lay there and hope he gets it right. Speak up.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Either you tell him or show him. You can't do it any other way.
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