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writes:Hey, I'm 14 and I really like this guy, I've liked him for 7 months now, I'm extremely close to him, we're really good friends, the thing is I never told anyone I liked him until today when I told my 3 best friends.They were completely shocked and I had a long talk with one of my closest friends, and she told me that she's realised that he's different around me than he is with other girls, and as I've liked him since May he's never gone out with any other girl. It may be a coincidence but my friend thinks there's more to it. I'm too scared to tell him, I only told my best friends because I wrote that I like him on a piece of paper and my mum read it and confronted me. So i decided to just tell them, as it was about time I let it out to a few people.But I'm still too scared to let it out to him, I know I'm overweight and I think that might be an issue, I just don't have the guts to tell him! I really don't know what to do, I was thinking of just trying to forget about him and move on but I can't, it's too hard as I've liked him for many months.I can't just put my feelings aside and get on with life, I've tried many times but I just can't tell him, it's too hard.
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reader, gaelicgurl2479  +, writes (7 October 2007):
 You think you're overweight?? Have you seen Hairspray by any chance? Lol. But seriously, beauty comes from within, and if he doesn't understand that, then he's not worth your time. As for how to ask/tell him, I agree with Agony-Hannah, laugh it off if he says no. Besides sweetie, you should be focusing on living your life right now. You're young and you have your whole life ahead of you. Don't waste it worrying about something like this. Trust me, I speak from personal experience. :)
Good Luck and God Bless,
Kat
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reader, Agony-Hannah +, writes (6 October 2007):
Oh hunny, I soo want to help you.
But you need to do this on your own.
This guy most likely likes you too, as you wouldn't be prepared to ask him out if you got that feeling he wern't into you.
Forget about your weight hunny!
It's proven most guys like curves rather than skinny people.
And i'm a bit too curvy for my own liking too.
But you're young. Take it as a learning experience.
Get your best mates to help you on your way.
Ask him out- and if he says No, then make it a joke.
Have a friend with you- and start laughing. Get a hand signal- if he says YES, than hug him. But if he says no- make a hand gesture and start laughing- your friend will run up to you, and say 'Did he say yes?!' Both of you laughing. Don't let him see how much he's hurt you.
Trust me- it don't work. x
Best luck x
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