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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid, I'm in a long distance relationship with my bf. We're living in different parts of the world and could only see each other maybe 3-4 times a year. My bf is quite sociable, he gets along really well with everyone. I'm not that sociable and I'm comfortable with the friends I have now. The problem is the majority of his friends moved out of the country so he thinks he need to make more friends for his social life. I'm not against him making friends, but to be honest he sounds a little desperate to know more people because his circle of aquitance is close to non existance. I have a little fear that once he gets close to a new friend..mostly girls. He'll maybe have second thaughts about our relationship. I dont know how to to him my concern. Please help
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (15 July 2011):
 If he is social and does not have a group of people to hang out with to go to activities and events, it could make him feel lonely and very depressed.
Since you are more introverted and satisfied with your social life, you are fine with that.
Being bothered about his need to expand his social circle is selfish on your part and you really do not have a right to be concerned about that desire.
If you have a monagamous relationship and are long distance, yes there is a chance he might not be faithful to you. But, when you entered a LDR, with visits only 3-4 times a year-chances are he will get lonely!
If he is not the trustworthy kind, and you are not the trusting kind..then there is no future anyway.
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