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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey dearcupid.I want to get over my ex girlfriend, who cheated on me (with 3 people in one night at a party I wasn't at). She's a compulsive liar, too. And she sometimes wouldn't even speak to me, giving me blunt 1-5 word sentences when i tried to make conversation with her. She treated me like complete dirt and I have depression and no self-esteem as a result of it. But I can't get her out of my head. We were together for almost 3 years and I just want to forget about her so I can somehow be happy againHow do I get over her? I'm sick of thinking about a mean, selfish, self-centred girl who ripped me in two with her indifference toward my feelings and self-worth. Please help :(
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reader, usedandconfuseductive  +, writes (16 July 2011):
No one can make you happy. You're co dependent. I have the problem too. I bet if you got her back you'd immediately not want her so much. Use this time you have now to improve yourself. I'm going trough something similar. Church helps. A lot of nice people and social. Readig ad working out too. Try to stay busy. Her memory will always be there. You need to lean to love yourself. No one is going to love you if you think low of yourself. She can't fill you up. It's gotta be hard but you should try to learn that some people just won't like you so forget them. Life is short!
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