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male
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30-35,
*ulla
writes:ok her i goi realy like the girl im going out with and i cant get my mind off her she has said to me previously that she likes me to and wants to be with me and wants things to wotk out but she wants to make mates but i want it to be more than mates this girls a gem i realy like her and i rather be with her than any other girl in the world, id give up everything for i realy would thats how much i like her but how do i tell her this please help Reply to this Question
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reader, just-ask-xx +, writes (28 October 2007):
 Okay, hey again. Have yot told her yet?
I'm assuming not. Well, how about you tell send her flowers with something like,
(her name) I want you to know,
that I love you so,
We're great friends,
But it depends,
Do you love me?
And sign your name, just a suggestion, you don't have to use that poem by the way :)
Or you could tell her face to face, take her to dinner, ooh...I know, het a load of tealights and go somewhere and light them all and arrange them so it spells out 'I love you' sorry I was getting carried away, I'm a hopeless romantic :D
love just-ask-xx
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (6 October 2007):
With a girl her age you can count on a high level of maturity. You take a big risk trying to pin her down. Usually that type of question gets asked latter when you're certain of the answer.
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male
reader, mulla +, writes (5 October 2007):
mulla is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBUT HOW DO I DO THIS HOW DO I TELL HER HOW I REALY FEEL WITHOUT HAVING TO THINK THAT IM GOING TO LOOSE HER
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): I do appologise, your age says that you are 13-15 years old, I was trying to understand how you could think you had met the love of your life at that age.
This changes things slightly and the knock on effect would have been greater as you were old enough to truely understand your loss. I think that you have to tell her how strongly you feel.
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female
reader, just-ask-xx +, writes (5 October 2007):
Follw your heart, tell her that nomatter what happens between you, you still want to be friends, then tell her, but don't just blurt it out, say it carefully. If she returns your feelings, good for you, if she just wants to be friends, accept her decision and don't act different around her. love, just-ask-xx
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male
reader, mulla +, writes (5 October 2007):
mulla is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat do mean by the last bit?
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male
reader, mulla +, writes (5 October 2007):
mulla is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm 25 years old, this girl is the 1st girl i've been with since I lost my ex. I don't want to hurt again. I don't want to lose another person I really care about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): How old are you? Thats very unfortunate, how does this affect your relationship with this other girl? Just because she knows about the accident doesnt necessarily make her the person you should be with.
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male
reader, mulla +, writes (5 October 2007):
mulla is verified as being by the original poster of the questionin ref to ur answer i have evryhting to loose 4 yrs ago i lost the love of my life in a car accident iv not spoken bout it to a single living soul until i met her she is the only person i have spoken to about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): Your only young, what do you have to lose by telling her exactly what you have just told us. You think the world of her and could she please consider being more than a friend to you. x
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