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26-29,
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writes:So I got the guy I'm interested in number. He mentioned he was looking for another job so I got him the information of a job that is hiring so I used that as an excuse to ask for his number to text the information to him. But i really want to use this excuse to talk to him more. How do I do that without looking desperate?
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (2 November 2015):
Ivyblue’s right: ask him after some time whether the information helped, whether he went for the job and how the search is going. This isn’t desperation, it’s friendliness. Think about it this way: his male friends could ask him the same question and it wouldn’t seem out of place. A friendly call or text after a bit of time to see how things went will not look like a desperate act at all. If some-one did that for me, I wouldn’t think any less of them at all. I wouldn’t even presume, just based on that, that they were interested in being anything more than friendly. You’ve got a good topic to start a conversation, and that’s all you’re doing. Where it leads, who knows? Take your chance.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (2 November 2015):
 I don't think it is an act of desperation just keep it real simple-" hey , i hope you don't mind me calling,but how'd things go with the job info I sent you, was it helpful, did you have any luck" and see where that takes you.
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