A
male
age
36-40,
*alance11
writes: How to take this situation?If you've known someone (a girl) that you like for a short time, say 2-3 months. Who you saw a couple times a week through work places, and you texted back and forth everyday. Then you finally tell them you like them. And they basically reject you by saying they didnt want anything at the moment. And didnt want to lead you on and wouldnt expect you to be waiting around for them. And that they didnt think you thought of them in that way. But they still text you day to day like before (though a bit less frequently) even though you's arent close friends. how should you take it? Dont want to over read something that isnt there.
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reader, activeplay +, writes (3 October 2010):
Yo man I have been right where you stand. I took a year to collect myself. Move on and stop causing your own self much hurt. I guaruntee when you meet your future girlfriend you are going to sit back and wonder what all men that have been through this situation wonder, what did I see in her? If she has made her self this clear then move on, you will love it when your face haunts her =].
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (2 October 2010):
This girl has made her feelings perfectly clear therefore i would say she is texting you as she probably doesnt want to see you upset and maybe because she thinks of you as a friend, so dont over analyze it she obviously doesnt want to be in a relationship at the minute and if it is to hard for you for her to be texting you when you like her then tell her you are unsure that you can both be friends when you have these feelings for her. Good luck
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