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How do I stop having sex with ex I'm in love with?

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Question - (22 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *cqueen09 writes:

ex and i agreed to date other people but because we still love each other we dont want either of us to have sex with anyone else. he has a gf now and i think we should stop but i love him so much,help

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009):

Hey, he's double-dippin'. Must be a stud. You're going to end up hurt, feeling used. Better stop.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009):

hi there

If you still love each other, there are options:

1. either get back together

2. go separate ways

If he has a gf now, they will somehow or rather have sex; what can you do about it? perhaps both of you just needed some time off; well its still not to late to rectify your situation.

What if you met someone else? then what?

It isn't easy to let go; but it will be even harder to keep each other as "backgrounds", he still has you in the background while he has his new gf...

vice versa.

how would you feel if you got a new bf and knew he was still in love with his ex...

I dont think your bf can restrain himself (from having sex with other people) in time since you've both agreed to see other people.. if you dont want each other to have sex with other people, then he should break it off with his new gf and you guys should get back together. He can't have his cake and eat it.

If I were you, I'd make a clean break and leave. Good luck..

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