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*caredtodeath2121
writes:Okay so... My boyfriend is always asking me to give him a blow job, and i love doing it for him... one problem, i tasted cum once and hated it... he says he doesnt mind, that i can start with a blow job and that he will tell me when hes close to done so i can finish with my hand...he says he doesnt care, but i mean i think he does inside and it makes me nervous... hes okay with me spitting it out too... BUT once again idk how! how do i spit it out without being awkward?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2011): hii...
try to make sure that you're near a bathroom or kitchen, and just excuse yourself from the room to go spit it out in the sink and rinse out your mouth. back when i, too, hated the taste of cum, that's how i handled the situation, and the guy didn't care. plus, it's really not an awkward way to go about doing it, since the guy doesn't actually see it happening. ")
good luck, and God bless,
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (9 August 2011):
 He probably really doesn't care, but if you must, the trick is to push it out of your mouth with the tip of your tongue and let it run down your chin (if he cums within your mouth). If he cums near the back of your mouth or closer to the throat, it's actually better to swallow without tasting.
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (9 August 2011):
It is nice of you that you want to because you think he does care inside, but you also need to care about what you want inside too. Don't put his feelings ahead of your own. You can let him speak for his feelings and you can speak for yours. He has said he doesn't mind, and you can trust his word. More importantly, you do mind actually, and have come up with a good compromise between the two of you which is to finish with your hand. It sounds like a plan that will work for both of you.
Having said that, it is ok for you to be open to trying it by spitting out. It is good to be willing to try it and see if it works for you, if you don't like it you can finish with your hand like you have discussed.
Also, you don't need to worry about being awkward when spitting out. He doesn't care, he is in the middle of his orgasm, he is thinking about stars, fireworks and rainbows, not worried about what you do with his cum. Spit it wherever it suits you.
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reader, scaredtodeath2121 +, writes (9 August 2011):
scaredtodeath2121 is verified as being by the original poster of the question it isnt that i resent it, because I DONT! i love doing it for him! and i usually do finish with my hand, but sometimes... idk i feel like i let him down, even though he COMPLETELY DOESNT CARE! plus sometimes hes giving me oral at the same time (69) so he doesnt tell me when he is close to done cuz hes distracted...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (9 August 2011):
 Why not just finish him with your hand if you hate the way it tastes? If you start feeling obligated to do this you may resent it and I'm sure he'd rather have blow jobs finished with your hand than no blow jobs at all.
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