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writes: Dear readers, what if one day a guy you have a good feeling for him comes and confesses that he likes you what would you do?In case if the relationship can't be happened what should I say?If I say " I have a good feeling for you too but I don't think I'm ready to have a relationship with anybody right now" will it hurt him much?Cuz that is the fact. I don't know the other way to make it any softer.Or you have any advice for me? Please do and thank you forward. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, petina1 +, writes (29 November 2010):
Just let him know that you appreciate his friendship but at the moment you arent looking for anything else. If you don't say anything at all to him he will probably be a nuisance to you and eventually the words you do say to him may not be very nice. So on a nice note I'd just suggest you tell him the truth of how you feel about it.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael +, writes (29 November 2010):
What you typed is probably as gentle as it gets. I am sure he will understand, if he doesn't, he probably is not ready for a relationship anyway.
I hope that helps.
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