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writes:Well i have read problems and i've been giving suggestions but now i am at a complete loss!I have been chatting to a guy on the internet and last night we met!While we were chatting, we said that we were both just looking for friendship and if anything happened then it happened!So anyway, it was the first time we met and we were both very nervous but i could have sworn that there was chemistry between us, as the night went on it just got more amazing!But through out the evening we were constantly reminding each other that it was friends only!But when i looked into his eyes, i could see that there was more!He walked me to the car, gave me a hug and started to walk off, but then he turned around and he kissed me! It was amazing there was so much passion that it took my breath away!He is 32 and i'm 22 the age doesn't matter and the fact that he has a 4 month old son that Lives with him and his mom is in rehabHow do i show him that i would like more with out scaring him off!
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reader, Tinkz +, writes (6 February 2007):
Tinkz is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you to everyone that gave me advice!
To let every one no, he turned out to be a pig like the rest of them!
What he wanted a friend with all the benefits of a relationship!
I guess i have to wait for the next one huh? :-(
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): First of all, he has an infant. Are you really ready for more? So...the baby's mom is in rehab or the guys mom? Confused. Either way...this relationship needs to go slower than ever now. This baby has a mother. This guy is on the rebounds and is recovering from whatever horrible situation would make a new mom and dad separate. Take this very slowly.....
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 You have only just met, my advice is take it slow and let him take the reins. He is certainly giving you signs that he is interested, but be careful that you do not become friends with benefits.
Go with the flow and see what happens.
If you want a relationship with this man, wait a while til you got to know him better before havind this chat with him. You need to figure this out yourself.
What I would not do is reiterate the friends things, otherwise he may think that you Kiss all your male friendsand loose respect.
Be cool and good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): I don't think you need to show him you want more? It's obvious you both want simialr things to me.
Why would he be scared off if you show you want to be more than friends? You're not seeing a kiddie teenager now, he's a 32 yr old man, I'm sure his emotional maturity can handle more than a friendship with you ;)
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reader, Shadow_Addict +, writes (19 January 2007):
 well it sounds to me like he wasn't looking for a relationship. and even when you met he trying to kid himself. But the fact that he kissed you shows that he obviously likes you...if I were you i'd just see how things go from now. Just let him set things at the pace he feels comfortable with
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