New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

How do I resolve this situation with my boyfriend of 9 months?

Tagged as: Dating, Pregnancy, Teenage, Troubled relationships<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (21 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am madly in love with my boyfriend of 9 months. For half of the relationship he was nothing but an asshole because he was depressed. I've been under some stress lately and I have been acting pretty stupid, bitching at him all the time, flipping out, etc.

We think we are pregnant. He said if we aren't he is done. How do I make him understand that we belong together and I need him even when things are hard?

View related questions: depressed

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (21 April 2009):

Honeygirl agony auntSweetie, I think that you need to really think carefully about moving on with your life. Your boyfriend is using emotional abuse to keep you where he wants you.

Have you considered taking a pregnancy test?

Email me if you would rather chat privately.

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

He's done this before. This is the 2nd time this has happened. We've thought we were pregnant b4 wen he's done this.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (21 April 2009):

Honeygirl agony auntUnfortunately, if your boyfriend already has the idea that if you are not pregnant that hes leaving you, shows that he will only stay with because you are expecting his child. I suspect that even if he does stay, there are going to be more problems ahead. So, if you are not pregnant move on with your life, maybe meet someone who will want to be with you.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "How do I resolve this situation with my boyfriend of 9 months?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312590000030468!