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writes:I'm a gay girl in a relationship! I have been with my girl for 3 months, but I liked her for 5 months before we got together, but didn't think she was interested so I started seeing someone else, then my girl tells me she is jealous that I'm seeing this other girl and so we got together cos I then knew she liked me too. She is very guarded about her feelings cos she has been hurt in the past but then so have I. She never tells me if she feels anything for me other than... "your lovely and I love spending time with you", and she knows I'm falling for her cos I've told her! I only see her 2 days a week even though she doesn't do anything else, because she likes her own space, and when I do see her she is very affectionate and it feels like she wants to be with me, but on the days I don't see her it's like I don't exsist, I don't hear from her other than a text goodnight, and she says it's just cos she hasn't done anything to tell me about. I just wanna know if I'm wasting my time waiting for her to feel more for me, of whether I'm just a past time till something else comes along??? I'm mad about her but feel miserable cos she can't or won't tell me if she feels anything!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah i have asked her and like i said.....she says its cos she hasnt done anything to tell me about, ive told her i dont like the fact we only text good night and for the first days after i said that she made contact but its gone back to nothing again, and if i text her then i might get one reply and thats it, so i get no conversation even if i make the contact!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): Have you ever asked her why she doesn't contact you? And if she replies no reason, just tell her how it would be nice if she texted you or rang to send you a nice message once in a while, just drop the hint in lightly. Good luck xxxx
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