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writes:please help me- i have been dating my boyfriend for two years now and he really does turn me on, but i haven't had an orgasim with him yet. every time i am about to, my body gets so tense i tell him to stop. it feels so good, but almost to good. just the thoughts alone interfere with my concentration in the bedroom. how can i relax myself more so i can have more pleasure? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): 2 things....first get Panax Ginseng, 2g root. It comes in little bottles. Take one a day.
It this doesnt work, get viagra, and take 25mg 1 hour before sex. Both engorge the clitoris more and make it easier to orgasm.
Once you have done this a couple of times it will become (scuse the pun haha) easier to have orgasm and you can drop the meds.
If you think you have any psychological/emotional barriers tho, go see a therapist with your boyfriend....this will also work well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): Perhaps try drinking a beer or two with him before having sex. It naturally relaxes you and once relaxed, you can let go more and let the orgasm happen. If you don't have one, stop thinking about it and trying...let it come naturally.
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