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writes:My question is, how do I reel him in and show him that I still love him with every fiber of my being without scaring him off or seeming clingy and/or desperate?Basic Back Story:Here's the deal, I've been head over heels, madly in love with Takay (not his real name) since I first saw him way back in grade six (about 9 years ago now). We have been best friends for the past 7 or so, and we have both confessed to each other on multiple occasions that we care for each other as more then just friends. The only problem is, he has been REALLY messed up by some of his ex's, which is the only reason we haven't dated yet. He joined the Navy almost a year ago and has moved to the other side of the country (only two naval bases in Canada) but he texts me every day, he's always telling me how awesome, beautiful, smart, special and all these nice little things that just makes me smile. I'm the type of person where I like making things or doing little things for no particular reason to make the person I am with feel special and show them that I care about them...is this adding to the problem or helping?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2011): You'd be surprised how fast a guy will get over his past hurts when he feels he's met the right girl. It seems he cares alot for you but doesn't feel the same you do. That's why you haven't dated..him not feeling it for you...not because of his past.
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