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writes:Sort of a wierd question.I went out with a girl when I was about 14, I had met her on holiday and it turned out we lived close to each other.However, we broke up after a week or so haha, because we were young and immature and we never really had it serious or that.It's been nearly 3 years since I last saw her and we have spoken now and again, and always been saying we will meet up, but haven't really.Now, here is the hitch.She is going through a hectic phase with her ex boyfriend she broke up with in January, who is now messing her around, telling her he loves her and then kissing her and then seeing other girls. It doesn't take a genius to see he is stringing her along.So I started talking to her tonight, and listened to what she said, and helped her understand her feelings.We decided upon the best course of action if she wants to get this boy to realise what he is doing is to write a short letter telling him that she agrees that she should move on just like he has, etc.However, I really want to recconect with her, because I really did used to like her a ridculous amount, and right now, she redefines the term beautiful. Personality wise and looks wise.So what would my plan of action be, I know right now she is fragile, so I'm not abusing that at all, should I just meet up with her and talk about how she feels and just be there for her?The only problem is now, we have different friendship circles. When we first me we never knew each others schools, but now she knows people in my school who I dont really hang out with, but would that really be problematic in reconnecting with her again?
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reader, Longhornfan81  +, writes (29 November 2010):
If you are really interested in this person, then you should wait until she decides she is ready for another relationship. The last thing you want to become is a rebound. It doesn't matter what circle of friends you both have, if she is interested, give her time to re establish herself so you can have a close relationship. Remember to not pressure her or make your intense feelings known, just chill and be yourself--be her friend and it all should work itself out.
Hope this helps you.
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