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writes: hi, ive been seeing this guy from work who has a g/friend. its over between us but i think he might have hinted to people what we got up too! his g/friend also works with us...how do i react when it comes out??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2006): i was in a very similar situation myself just before xmas, a few people did know but no one has mentioned it to me...i think THEY are worried about how I will react!! which may be the same in your case. Or you could just deny it all and make out as though he jsut fancies you and has a wild imagination and that you'd never go there anyway! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006): you know this could just be paranoia. I once dated a guy at work and when it was over I was convinced everyone in the office knew. But they didnt! Just relax, he has as much to lose as you do
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (20 January 2006):
I wouldn't worry about it too much. He's just as guilty as you are. Why is he going around telling everyone? Isn't cheating on his girlfriend a disgrace that he shouldn't be advertising? He probably won't have a girlfriend much longer...not once she finds out!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006): That's an odd question. React how you would react when it comes out! Personally, if it happens to me and it comes out, I'll just accept whatever criticism comes at me. What else can you do? Change jobs? [shrugs]
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