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How do I prove to my friends that I am capable of getting a boyfriend?

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Question - (7 December 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hello aunts! I have a small problem. I recently got out of a relationship with a guy that went to a different school than me. When we were going out, none of my friends believe he existed. There were rumors going around that i faked a boyfriend just to get attention. They don't believe that i can get a boyfriend and even when I get one they need all kinds of proof to be sure he is real. So my question is: how do i prove to my friends that I am capable of getting a boyfriend?

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A male reader, sojkci United States +, writes (8 December 2011):

sojkci agony auntIn my opinion those who are your "friends" aren't real "friends" to begin with. You don't have to "prove" anything to anybody but yourself. As long as you're honest with yourself(and those people important to you of course).. then there is no need to "show" or "prove" anything to anybody.

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (7 December 2011):

If you start your life by proving things to other people, you won't enjoy life. Prove things to yourself.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (7 December 2011):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntHere's a better question: WHY do you need to "prove" (to your friends) that you have a boyfriend???????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2011):

You do not need to prove anything. They are calling you a liar which means that they may not be the friends you think you have. They are probably jelalous because you got a boyfriend and they have not.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (7 December 2011):

Honeypie agony auntYou don't need to prove a darn thing to anyone. Tell them to go fly a kite.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (7 December 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntAs you mature you will learn that you do not NEED TO PROVE anything to your friends.... in fact, FRIENDS have your back all the time... what makes you NEED to PROVE that you are capable of getting a boyfriend?

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A female reader, Krislis United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2011):

These people may be jelous of you and your capability to get a boyfriend!! You dont have to prove to any one that you have or ar capable of getting a boyfriend.

If you want to prove it to them give them a picture or better yet arrange a day out with him and your friends, So what if they dont believe he is real, just as long as you know he is real!

Hope it works love :)

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