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How do I overcome my shyness to talk to her?

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Question - (6 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am an 18yo male, never had a gf, i am normally shy but have come out of my shell recently. Anyway there is a girl i REALLY like at work, I have a laugh with and am quite good work friends with, however i have wanted to say something for the last few weeks to see if she is interested at all but the words just wont come out of my mouth, evan the thought of saying how i feel makes me quiver.

She has been telling me how she "is looking for a boyfriend" and she wants "someone down to earth" but i dont have a clue about how to even see if shes interested.

Any help will be appreciated

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007):

Go for it man!

Just talk and ask her for a movie on SAturadya noght like the other guys said.

Me being a girl, I HATE it when guys dont come up and talk to me.

Guys are supposed to...so im happy you will!

dont make her suffer waiting if she DOES like you...

and if she doesn't, who cares?

others will deff.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007):

hey mate, your suffering from something even the most experienced lad's going to suffer from. take it from me, its better juts to ask than to play silly games. look at life from her prospective. if you were single and looking and someone was playing games with you, would you even consider becoming their partner? i know i personally wouldnt!

i think your best to simply express your feelings and hope that they are the same. but at the same time, dont get worked up on just one girl! at the end of the day, not everyone wil llike you (something i've just come to grasps with)

dosent mean that its not worth trying.

hope i've been help, doubt it though.

good luck to you.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (6 October 2007):

Ask her if she wants to go to movie with you Saturday night.

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A female reader, lovehate United Kingdom +, writes (6 October 2007):

lovehate agony auntWell if she is saying to you "I am looking for a boyfriend" that could be a clue to maybe saying she likes you and is attracted to you. Honestly well done for coming out of your shell, it's hard i know. Just go against all your boundaries and ask her out. DO IT. If she says no then you can get over her easier than waiting around wondering...GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE, SHE WILL LOVE YOU FOR IT...some friendly advice =]

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