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I'm 3 years older than her. Does the age gap matter?

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Question - (6 October 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *eanh20069 writes:

I like this girl that i met through my brother, and my brother is 13, the girl i like is 14 and im going to be turning 17 though. I'm worried about the age gap. I'm in 12th grade and shes in 9th, and yet i have a late brithday so i'm the age of an 11th grader.

What do i do?

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (7 October 2007):

Yes seanh20069 a 22 year old girl is mature enough to date any guy over 18, including a 25 year old. The situations are not comparable when talking about a immature child.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007):

Age doesnt matter at all just so long as you wait until the appropriate age before you have sex, or you may end up being locked up! I'm 2 years older than my bloke but we are well and truley over 21! Be careful and have the patience to wait.

take care

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A female reader, dafni Cyprus +, writes (7 October 2007):

dafni agony auntyeah,i agree with the anonymous female..try becoming friends with her just for the time being,and if you see that she likes you,too maybe you could try something with her.but,please just don't take advantage of her!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007):

A 2-3 year age gap might matter now, but in a few years it won't matter at all. Try just being friends with this girl. Dating her now might cause a lot of trouble, but being friends with her means you may still be friends with her when you are both in college, when the age difference won't matter. Girls mature faster than boys anyway, so by the time she's 18 and you are 21 you will likely be on the same level.

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A male reader, seanh20069 United States +, writes (6 October 2007):

seanh20069 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

but wouldnt tht apply if lets say i was 25 and im going out wit a 22 year old?

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (6 October 2007):

Don't take advantage of such a young girl. You may live to regret it.

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