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anonymous
writes:i'm in love with this gr8 guy who happens to be all i've eva wantd +more. he makes me feel lyk flying and i love him to bits. this myt sound silly but i need ideas on how not to have sex- yet.he asked once but we talked about it and we agreed to wait till we gt married (he's neva asked since).howeva he makes comments like he cant wait to share my bed or take a shower with me evry once in a while. now i want him more than eva and i know he feels the same. makin out only makes things worse. i realy wana save myself for my wedding night which will hopefully b with him. he's totally irresistable by the way but im afraid if i give in i might resent myself and possibly him too and end up ruining the best thing in my life. help- how do i not make love with the man of my dreams?
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (4 February 2009):
 thats brilliant, best of luck to you both. keep me informed! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx kellyxxx, it wont be easy but i'll try take your advice. we hv talked about getting married and he's all for it
.will definately keep u updated.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (3 February 2009):
this is a hard one! if you think the time is right and you do make love with him then you wont resent yourself after it...
ask him about marriage and tell him how you feel! he needs to know your views on this.
to avoid making love go on dates, try restaurants and public places, then you will be out of the house and not able to do it.
keep me updated. x
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