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writes:This may sound stupid, or a waste of time but, ive been going out with a girl for almost 2 months now, im really into her, the thing is im not sure how to move forward because we have only really just been taking it easy, hugs, pecks all that stuff, nothing major yet.I am trying to figure out the best way to eventually lead to a real kiss not a peck or anything, i mean a actual kiss or make out.I just don't want to go about it the wrong way moving in for the kiss or going in too early and making it a awquard situation for both of us. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): well dont be shy hun just ask her if she is ready to move up a level and if she is grap her hand and look deeply into her eyes and move in for a kiss try and enjoy and and relax its meant to be fun for both of u xx
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reader, Man Boy  +, writes (19 October 2009):
I was in your postion a few weeks back and i know how you can move in for the proper kiss. Go somewhere quiet, start talking like you would do normally and give her a hug and while your pulling away from her slowly stop look into her eyes and say 'i love you' and go in slowly for a proper kiss, If she pulls away so do you and say sorry but if she don't just give her a kiss and if she continues to kiss or move onto a snog then you've cracked it lad :).
Good luck
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reader, Yos  +, writes (19 October 2009):
 I have had success with the direct question: "Would you like to kiss me?". Keep eye contact whilst you ask (and of course ask at a suitable moment).
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): It has to be a gradual progression, being somewhere private helps. By gradual progression I mean it has to flow with what is happening, diving in as you know, is a bit risky.
It starts with the usual closeness and intimacy, hugs, holding and should develope from there in the heat of the moment, next time you go in for peck, kiss her then pull your face back only a small bit, smile and gaze into her eyes, you should be able to tell whether the time is right or not from her eyes. Then just kiss her again this time for a little while longer and perhaps even try opening your mouth a bit and see if she reciprocates.
Try not to think about it too much or it will feel forced.
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