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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am bored of being on my own and want to find a boyfriend the lads i hang arond with have all seemed to have slipped into the "friend zone" and i dont think we could go anywhere. how do i get to meet new lads and stop our relationships being just friends?please helpthnx Reply to this Question
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 One big mistake many women do is to expect the guys they hang out with will eventually start a relationship with them. But clear this out for me: You only hang out with them because you expected all of this?
Well, what you could do is very simple: flirt with the guy you like. Most people can't read minds and unless you let them know you're interested, they will probably won't take a chance at you. If you don't know how to flirt, here's a website that could help you with that:
http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt-with-a-Guy
Also, taking innitiative would help a lot. If you see a guy you like, don't hesitate on aproaching him. Go up to him and spark up a conversation. Talk about ANYTHING, as long as you let him know get to know you.
Also, you could wear more attractive clothes. People are first attracted to looks, and wearing good clothes would make you be more aproachable. It doesn't matter what size you are, but if you were clothes that fit you and accentuate your parts in a good way, then you will look hot.
Finally, always be yourself and give people a nice smile. By being nice, guys will find you more aproachable and they will be more comfortable with you, which might make them want to be with you in a relationship.
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