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writes:I will be spending a first night sleep over with my boyfriend, the thing is i'm looking for some romantic idea's on how to make it a perfect night ever please.and dont get me wrong i'm not a virgin i just want it to be perfectcause i love him so much and its going to be our first night together in 3yrs time of our relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 Hi,
Well as the other Aunt sugested some lovely ideas, I think the best thing to do is relax and dont worry. A nice meal with candles and some romantic music. And if its warm enough to eat outside in the garden you cant go wrong.
Just dont eat to much of anything thats heavy, or you will spend the night worrying that you will pass wind in your sleep. LOL
XXX Good luck Honey
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (21 August 2008):
 we always want that first time perfect and not just on a whim.. why not try something like candles or rose petals how about a nice meal together..or a massage or how about a picnic under the stars with some wine or champagne. or some body chocolate.. hope that helps aphexy xx
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reader, Fairy Godmother +, writes (21 August 2008):
 Tantalise him beforehand by sending him a suggestive text message or give him a quick call to tell him how much you're looking forward to your evening together. Get him excited and wet his appetite!
It sounds as though you will be spending the night at his home rather than yours, so you can't set the scene (i.e. candles, music etc.). Just make sure you're looking and smelling gorgeous.
Try to relax and don't worry. If this is the first time in three years of dating, there's a lot of pressure on both of you. I understand you want it to be perfect but don't forget your sense of humour if not everything goes to plan.
Tell him what you want him to do; men love that. But don't talk much while he's doing it!
Don't forget to reassure him because he is under just as much pressure as you are, if not more. He wants to please you, so let him know when he gets it right.
Have a wonderful night! x
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