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How do I make my relationship with my boyfriend age apropriate?

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Question - (18 October 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *ngelOfthemoon writes:

Hi, I'm in a relationship with a boy tht is younger than me and all he can think about is sex, what do I do? I don't want just sex I want to cuddle hug be a cute couple together. Everytime I hug him he tries to touch me innapropriate I feel uncomfortable but I just let him do it I don't know how to stop him and make us be together like normal couple of our age would be. I like him but I'm lost should I have sex with him? But I don't want to be a slut. Like his exes . I don't know what to do please help!??!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010):

this may sound harsh, but you need to dump him. all he wants is sex... clearly nothing more (you said his exs are sluts) he's trying to use you. leave him and find a good nice non-sex crazed boy.

good luck :)

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A female reader, misLadYd.. South Africa +, writes (18 October 2010):

misLadYd.. agony auntyou are not ready so tell him and make sure that he gets the message loud and clear.you are between 13-15 and sex is something serious.once you are in there is no turning back.maybe he just wants to use you.who knows?but next time he touches you inappropriate just take his hands off and explain to him you dont want that.hope that helps

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2010):

You need to tell him straight that you don't feel ready for any of this and would prefer him to stop feeling you up. There's no way of him knowing how you feel unless you come out and say it. You're not ready and you don't feel ready, so tell him that. It's your body, not his. And no, don't have sex with him either. You're not ready. Just relax, tell him how you feel and see what happens. Hopefully he's a decent guy and will stop. If he doesn't, then he's not mature enough to be in a relationship.

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