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26-29,
*hannon_MM
writes:My best friend is in over her head. I know this because she told me, and she doesn't know what to do. Neither do I.Recently her boyfriend cheated on her with his ex. Somehow, I don't understand how, she forgave him and they are still together.But she also is crushing on another guy- a MUCH better guy. This guy is so great that her current loser cheater boyfriend is being overprotective because he knows he isn't as good as the other guy.Question: How can I make her realize that the other guy is so much better for her?
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reader, P.Sawyer  +, writes (27 August 2010):
 You can't make anybody see anything, people are only going to see what they wanna see.
What you can do to help your friend, is let her know how you FEEL about her boyfriend and the rest is up to her.
If you let her know that you'll be there for her no matter what, and if she can see thats she deserves better she'll come to her senses and realize she's better off without him.
Plus they are a little young to be in lovee. Just try to help her out as best you can.
Good luck
Hope it works out
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reader, kezzy  +, writes (26 August 2010):
I personally think you have nothing to worry about! If shes so in love with the 'loser' boyfriend then she wouldnt even look at another guy in that way! She realise in time that shes not that into him and can do much better =)
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reader, The Realist +, writes (26 August 2010):
 Play on all of her current bf's bad qualities while talking only about how great this other guy is. Don't make anything it but by the sounds of it you won't have to. All you can do is show her the truths about each guy and give your strong opinion but in the end she has to be the one to make the decision.
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